Always Apply Common Sense
One of the saddest things I’ve encountered as a psychic reader relates to those people who become obsessed about real or imagined twin flames, to the extent that they diminish the quality of their own lives, and sometimes the lives of the persons they believe to be their twin flames too. I’ll share a few examples with you, so that you can better understand what I mean.
As I write now, in 2024, just a few months ago a woman called me for a reading, during which it became apparent that she’d put her life on hold, due to a psychic reading she’d had way back in the 1970s with another reader, in which the supposed ‘psychic’ had told her that she was destined to be with a certain man, the result of which was that this poorly informed woman had avoided all other opportunities of finding true love, as she obsessed over the man in question, who had long since gotten married and moved on his life. I explained to this caller (in the hope that it would help her make the best of the rest of her life) that psychics can be wrong sometimes (though it remains to be seen whether the so-called psychic was genuinely gifted, or just one of those questionable readers who make money out of telling vulnerable people what they want to hear?). Whether my comments helped, only time will tell.
In a similar incident, another woman who phoned me from the USA told me that she believed a man she’d once briefly dated 30 years before, was her twin flame and as a result, she’d put her life on hold for the last 30 years, trying unsuccessfully to reignite a relationship with him. He rebuffed her at every attempt, telling her that he was happily married, with children. When I informed her that my psychic sense indicated that this man was probably not in fact her twin flame, she replied by informing me that I was the second psychic to say this to her. It seemed to me though, that her delusion about this particular man was so strong that she’d brushed aside the other psychic’s sensible message, and as we spoke I felt that she was probably going to do the same with the message I’d received from Spirit for her too. It’s quite likely that she continues to obsess about this man, right now.
In another instance, about 5 years ago, a woman called me for a reading, lamenting the fact that many people had informed her during the course of her life that her uncommunicative husband was unsuited to her. She knew this was true, but she told me that she kept thinking in response to these warnings, ‘One day he’ll change’. Now in her 70s, she recognised, as she spoke to me, ‘He’s never going to change, is he?’, a rhetorical question which seemed to indicate that she finally understood that she’d wasted much of her life, with a man who was unsuited to her.
Not so long ago, in 2024, someone phoned me from abroad to talk about her supposed ‘twin flame’. As I provided a psychic reading for her, I sensed distance between her and the person in question, which she confirmed. I explained that he wasn’t thinking about her at all, whilst she appeared to be thinking about him all the time. I then began to sense that he was some kind of celebrity, a famous person, which she confirmed. I also accurately described this man’s children and his wife (which marriage the caller initially tried to evade confirming to me). As the reading progressed it became clear to me that this woman had become fixated upon a minor celebrity, whom she’d never met. What made the situation worse was the fact that it seemed that a so-called twin flame ‘expert’ in the USA had been reinforcing this woman’s delusion. (It appears that this was another example of a questionable ‘psychic reader’ who was in the habit of telling vulnerable people what they want to hear.)
When true twin flames are destined to connect, the Spirit World will ensure that they do. It’s not a haphazard process. It’s an unstoppable event. What’s more, when true twin flames are ready to remain together, they will. Some twin flames, it seems, do separate, when one or more of the twins is not ready for the relationship, for one reason or another (which usually involves achieving a higher level of spiritual growth, before further progress can be made). Twin flame ‘separation’ is not though, a term that should be used to describe two people who’ve never had a relationship, where one person obsesses over another, who doesn’t even know that they exist. (And kidding yourself that you’re meeting a celebrity in ‘5D’, or some ‘higher dimension’, as the person described above did, doesn’t count, either.) True twin flames in union are mature souls, who are secure enough in themselves that they do not need to obsess over their ‘other half’. When together, they act as two harmonious parts of one soul unit. When apart, in ‘separation’, the mature one of the two individuals trusts in divine timing, recognising that their ‘other half’ needs first to attain a certain level of spiritual/emotional maturity in order for the union to endure. Indeed, my sense is that obsessing over a twin flame whilst in ‘separation’ prolongs the separation, because the obsessing twin needs first to learn to find emotional and spiritual balance, before union can occur. I’m even aware of an instance where one person hired the services of online sorcerers to use black magic to attempt to cause a man to break up with his wife. In another instance the adage ‘be careful what you wish for’, seemed appropriate, when a man one woman felt was her twin flame turned into a stalker, to the extent that she had to move and go ‘off grid’ to hide from the obsessed individual. Some whilst married, have had affairs, in the hope that the objects of their affections would commit to them, when what actually happened, it seemed, was that they were just being used for sex, whenever it suited their paramours to make contact. It’s not unknown for others to leave marriages, in pursuit of (real, or imagined) twin flames, who, in contrast, avoid them, even cutting off all contact with their unwanted admirers. One person even obtained a court order, to stop the unwanted attention of a pursuer.
Denial and delusion are powerful forces, which can cause individuals to reject common sense, in pursuit of real or imagined twin flames.
Genuine twin flames will be presented with an overwhelming amount of evidence from Spirit (you can read about my experiences with Asha on this website, for instance), that’s incontrovertible. In contrast deluded people will ‘clutch at straws’, in their attempts to make ordinary events appear to be ‘signs’ from Spirit. Once, for instance, a caller informed me that her music app had begun to draw her attention to music from a country associated with her supposed ‘twin flame’, when in actual fact it seemed to me, based on what she’d said, that what was actually happening was that because she’d begun to listen to music from that part of the world, her app had simply suggested similar songs. No magic, just an algorithm, based on her recent listening habit.
When I spoke with the woman who’d put her life on hold since the 1970s, and the woman who’d pursued someone for 30 years – and the woman in her 70s who’d lived her life hoping that an unsuited man would ‘change’, only recognising the fact that he wouldn’t when it was too late, I felt deeply sad for the women involved. I’m therefore sharing this information publicly in the hope that others can spare themselves the same fate, by casting aside unhelpful delusions. Don’t get burned by a real or imagined twin flame situation. Use common sense. Live your life to the full. When you’re destined to be with your divine soul counterpart, you will be. It’s all a matter of divine timing.
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