The Absolute Trap: Why Universal Moral Maxims Are Just Rules of Thumb

Humanity has an age-old craving for the algorithmic solution to moral life. We seek the simple, clean code—a universal ethical rule that, when applied without exception, yields a just and good outcome. These maxims, distilled through philosophy, religion, and tradition, offer tremendous clarity and comfort. They serve as the bedrock of civilised interaction.

Yet, life is not a clean algorithm; it is a chaotic, analog system. When tested against the extreme complexities of human conflict and coexistence, the most cherished universal precepts invariably break down, revealing themselves not as ultimate truths, but as highly effective rules of thumb. We are required to navigate the perilous territory of contextual morality, where absolute adherence can become irresponsible or even cruel.

To illustrate this necessary compromise, we look at two profound moral teachings: one drawn from modern paganism, the other from Christianity.


1. The Harm Principle: The Limits of the Wiccan Rede

The Wiccan Rede provides a powerful, liberty-affirming maxim: “An ye harm none, do what ye will.”

At its core, this teaching is revolutionary. It grants the individual vast personal sovereignty and creativity, constrained only by the requirement of non-maleficence. It is an excellent principle of default action, emphasising personal responsibility and minimising interference in the lives of others.

But what happens when the pursuit of justice must involve the infliction of harm?

Consider the scenario where an individual acts with deliberate hostility, malice, or negligence toward another—perhaps via defamation, extensive fraud, or civil abuse. The victim, exercising their right to justice, pursues legal recourse. This process culminates in a judicial decision that requires the offender to pay significant monetary damages, incur massive legal debt, or face imprisonment.

This outcome undeniably constitutes “harm.” The offender suffers financial ruin, loss of liberty, and emotional distress. If the victim were held strictly and universally to the Wiccan Rede, they would arguably be compelled to forgo legal action, thus allowing the initial harm to stand unchallenged, simply because the appropriate remedy involves inflicting a proportionate consequence (harm) upon the aggressor.

In this light, the Rede ceases to function as a universal ethical governor. It must be interpreted contextually: proportional, justified, self-defence, or judicial redress are necessary evils. Without the ability to inflict proportionate harm, justice systems would collapse, rendering the innocent perpetually vulnerable to the unrestrained malice of the guilty.

The Rede, therefore, is not a prohibition against all consequential harm, but a profound ethical mandate against unjustified, malevolent, or unnecessary harm. It serves as a necessary check on one’s ego and power, but cannot prevent the necessary suffering required to restore balance.


2. The Reciprocity Problem: The Failure of the Golden Rule

Perhaps the most famous maxim in ethical history is the Golden Rule, taught by Jesus: “Do to others as you would have them do to you.”

The Golden Rule is the philosophical engine of empathy. It requires us to adopt the perspective of the other, ensuring that our actions pass the test of symmetrical exchange. For a functional society composed of reasonable actors, it is indispensable.

The weakness of the Golden Rule emerges when dealing with the unreasonable actor—the person whose core intent is destructive, malicious, or exploitative.

Imagine facing a violent aggressor, a relentless bully, or a manipulator whose kindness is purely transactional. If we adhere strictly to the rule—”I wish peace and kindness upon myself, therefore I must offer peace and kindness to the aggressor”—we invite our own destruction. If the default assumption is that kindness will be reciprocated, adherence to the rule in this scenario becomes passive submission to injustice.

In the face of violence, an individual adhering to the Golden Rule would fail to protect themselves or those dependent upon them. They would prioritise their own internal moral consistency (being kind) over the external necessity of self-preservation and justice (stopping genuine harm).

To survive and flourish, we must moderate the Golden Rule with situational awareness. We treat others as we wish to be treated until their actions demonstrate profound unreasonableness or destructive intent. At that point, the ethical imperative shifts from symmetric kindness to proportionate defence. The new maxim becomes: Be kind, but be prepared to be just, firm, and decisive when kindness is interpreted only as weakness.


The Necessity of Contextual Judgement

When we analyse these monumental moral codes, we realise that their power lies not in their universality, but in their utility as launching points for ethical thought. They set the default standard for behaviour, maximising freedom and minimising conflict in the vast majority of human interactions.

The danger arises when a society, a group, or an individual elevates a rule of thumb to the level of ultimate, unyielding dogma. This elevation leads to “The Absolute Trap”—the moment where comfortingly simple certainty overrides complex, often painful, contextual judgement.

  • A business adhering rigidly to “Always treat the customer as king” may be bankrupted by the one percent of customers who seek only to exploit that rule.
  • A government adhering rigidly to “Never interfere in the affairs of others” may allow genocides to proceed unchecked.

The Exhortation:

We are required, as mature and responsible ethical agents, to embrace the difficult work of contextual judgement. Do not trade the uncomfortable necessity of evaluating circumstance for the soothing certainty of fixed rules.

Look carefully at the teachings that guide your life—be they religious, philosophical, or personal. Do not discard them, for they hold profound wisdom. But interrogate them rigorously. Ask not only, “When does this rule work best?” but more importantly, “When does the strict adherence to this rule lead to an absurdity, an injustice, or a failure of responsibility?”

The highest form of wisdom is not merely knowing the rules, but knowing precisely when the rules must temporarily bend, yield, or break to serve the greater, more complex demands of justice, preservation, and reality. Embrace the rule of thumb; reject the tyranny of the absolute.

Kerin Webb has a deep commitment to personal and spiritual development. Here he shares his insights at the Worldwide Temple of Aurora.