Why Spiritual Living Demands Unwavering Character

In a world that often glorifies the superficial, the instant, and the external, choosing a spiritually-minded lifestyle can feel less like a gentle stream and more like swimming against a powerful current. It’s a path that, while profoundly rewarding, requires not just good intentions, but a deeply rooted strength of character and a willingness to sometimes walk – or even sprint – in the opposite direction of the prevailing flow.

But what do we mean by “spiritually-minded”? It’s not solely about religious dogma or adhering to rigid rituals. Instead, it’s about cultivating a life guided by inner values, seeking deeper meaning, and prioritising connection – connection to oneself, to others, to nature, and potentially to a higher power. It’s about living intentionally, with compassion, empathy, and a desire to contribute something positive to the world.

This sounds beautiful, and it is. But it’s also undeniably challenging because it often necessitates bucking societal trends and internal resistances. Here’s why a spiritually-minded life demands a robust character and a willingness to go against the flow:

The Siren Song of Materialism and External Validation: Modern society is often built on a foundation of consumerism and external validation. We are bombarded with messages telling us that happiness lies in the next purchase, the next promotion, the next Instagram-worthy experience. A spiritual path, however, often directs our focus inward. It asks us to find contentment not in accumulation, but in appreciation; not in external praise, but in inner peace.

Resisting this societal siren song requires strength. It takes courage to question the relentless pursuit of “more,” to prioritise experiences over possessions, and to find value in simplicity and presence. It means potentially facing scepticism or misunderstanding from those caught in the current of materialism. You might be questioned for choosing a career path driven by purpose rather than purely by profit, or for valuing genuine connection over fleeting social media popularity.

The Pressure to Conform and the Fear of Being Different: Human beings are social creatures, and the pressure to conform can be immense. Spirituality, however, often encourages individuality and authenticity. It asks us to listen to our own inner compass, even if it points a different direction than the crowd.

Standing apart takes courage. It means being willing to voice unpopular opinions rooted in your values, to prioritise honesty and integrity even when it’s inconvenient, and to live in alignment with your truth, even if it means being misunderstood or judged. The “flow” might be to gossip, to prioritise your own ambition above all else, or to engage in superficial interactions. A spiritual path may guide you towards kindness, collaboration, and deeper, more meaningful relationships, which can sometimes feel counter-cultural.

The Internal Battle with Ego and Instant Gratification: Beyond external pressures, the spiritual journey often involves confronting our own internal resistances. Our ego, with its desires for instant gratification, control, and self-preservation, can be a powerful force pulling us away from deeper values.

Cultivating virtues like patience, humility, and compassion requires a daily battle against the ego’s demands. It’s easier to react impulsively, to judge quickly, to hold onto resentment. Spiritual practices like meditation, mindfulness, and self-reflection are tools to develop the inner strength to resist these impulses, to choose conscious responses over reactive ones, and to cultivate a more compassionate inner landscape. This inner work is not always easy, and it often goes against the “flow” of our default, ego-driven tendencies.

The Rewards of Swimming Upstream: While demanding, the rewards of living a spiritually-minded life are profound and deeply fulfilling. By developing the strength to go against the flow, we gain:

Greater Authenticity: We live in alignment with our true selves, free from the need for constant external validation.

Deeper Meaning and Purpose: We find a sense of direction and significance that transcends superficial pursuits.

Stronger Inner Peace: We cultivate resilience and contentment, less swayed by external circumstances.

More Meaningful Connections: We build relationships based on genuine understanding and empathy.

A Sense of Contribution: We strive to make a positive impact on the world, guided by compassion and service.

Embarking on a spiritually-minded lifestyle is not for the faint of heart. It’s a journey that demands strength of character – the courage to question societal norms, the resilience to stand apart, and the inner discipline to challenge our own ego. It requires a willingness to sometimes swim against the prevailing current, to choose the path less travelled. But for those who embrace this challenge, the rewards – a life of authenticity, purpose, and profound inner peace – are immeasurable and ultimately, deeply enriching.

Choosing to live spiritually is choosing to live with intention, with courage, and with a steadfast commitment to a life of deeper meaning, even if it means navigating the current differently.

Kerin Webb has a deep commitment to personal and spiritual development. Here he shares his insights at the Worldwide Temple of Aurora.